soft limits
Clarification: Rescinding Consult Credits
I typically offer some amount of the scene consultation to be applied to a session. I have stated that I reserve the right to rescind this offer if I have to do some unusual amount of work prior to the … continue reading “Clarification: Rescinding Consult Credits”
Know Your Limits
When you approach me for a scene please make sure that you can tell me your limits, not just your interests. Lately, I have noticed more people are not prepared and don’t know what theirs are. They’re approaching me for … continue reading “Know Your Limits”
Hard Limits and Soft Limits
If you have spent any time experimenting with BDSM, you will encounter the concept of the “hard limit”. You likely also heard about its close relative the “soft limit”. While they are both refer to limitations placed on the activities … continue reading “Hard Limits and Soft Limits”