Professionals

Looking To Get Into The Biz? Read This.

Many people come into forums for professionals and ask us what they need to do to be a pro. What you may notice is that most of the time these posts don’t receive replies. Why? Because we’re already tired from … continue reading “Looking To Get Into The Biz? Read This.”

To Aspiring and Practicing Pro Dommes

I know that this work can demand a lot from you, and you may feel you can’t do everything, so you look for “help”. You may look for ideas about what to offer, how much to charge, and where to … continue reading “To Aspiring and Practicing Pro Dommes”

Finding A Professional Domme

Last Update: March 2025

Since FOSTA/SESTA was signed into law in April of 2018, pro Domme directories have disappeared. With that, people have been expressing dismay about where they can find Us. I have included some information below which may … continue reading “Finding A Professional Domme”

What Does It Mean To Cancel Same-Day?

One of the banes of a Dominatrix’s existence is same-day cancelations. The reason We loathe this is because it’s guaranteed to cost Us and mess things up. Sometimes in more ways than people may have ever considered.

You may not … continue reading “What Does It Mean To Cancel Same-Day?”

Don’t Be Fooled: Spotting Fakes and Scammers

Not sure how to figure out if the person you're dealing with is who they say they are? How can you tell if they're a fake person using stolen photos? Or someone who's trying to scam you? Here are some tips to help you save time and possibly money. continue reading “Don’t Be Fooled: Spotting Fakes and Scammers”

The Judgmental BDSM Professional

Have you ever had someone shame you about your identity or sexuality?

Feels horrible, doesn’t it?

Have you ever had a Domme or Mistress do it?

If you’re a genuinely submissive person, it can be especially damaging — possibly pushing … continue reading “The Judgmental BDSM Professional”