harm reduction

“Fake” versus “Real” Dominants

I came across this entry “How To Tell The Difference Between Fake And Real Dominants” at BDSMTrainingAcademy.com, which includes this graphic:

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While the information itself is terrific, the presentation of it as a dichotomy of “fake” versus … continue reading ““Fake” versus “Real” Dominants”

Please Buy This: These Are Supposed To Go In Your Ass

While they are now sadly “unavailable” they were once for sale. And people bought them.

© “Sex Toys”

I actually got one of these in with something I bought, like a free gift.

I can tell you I would never … continue reading “Please Buy This: These Are Supposed To Go In Your Ass”

Presenting at DomCon

I will be teaching two classes at DomCon this year:

SECURITY CONSIDERATIONS
This will be one-hour class open to industry professionals only. It will be held on Thursday, May 10th at 11am.
Description: In this class, I’ll discuss both … continue reading “Presenting at DomCon”

Article: BDSM as Harm Reduction

“As I’ve indicated in a number of other articles, recent robust research has found no correlation between BDSM and pathology, and indeed the research that attempted to connect BDSM to trauma often had underlying deeply flawed and biased methodologies,

… continue reading “Article: BDSM as Harm Reduction”