When iFet.com popped up, I noticed people flocking to it. It seemed like it might be a step up from other similar sites because, for one, they have a more attractive interface. However, being the cautious, not-so-easily-lead, and nonconformist type, … continue reading “Beware of iFet.com”
Almost every client expresses some kind of concern about their privacy. Some people are very laid back about it and some people are very, very paranoid. I understand and respect the range of concerns and needs that exist. However, what … continue reading “Professional BDSM & Confidentiality: It Goes Both Ways”
Have you ever had someone shame you about your identity or sexuality?
Feels horrible, doesn’t it?
Have you ever had a Domme or Mistress do it?
If you’re a genuinely submissive person, it can be especially damaging — possibly pushing … continue reading “The Judgmental BDSM Professional”
I’m a vegetarian. Not the militant kind (unless you enjoy that). I don’t want to get into a discussion here about why, other than killing animals so that I can eat them makes me uncomfortable. Also, I just fucking … continue reading “Consensual Cruelty”
Many Dommes indicate “feminization” as an activity they offer. It’s popular. A lot of men are interested in it. Usually it’s cis men, but I have known trans men who enjoy it. Also, usually straight men, but sometimes queer, bi, … continue reading “Why I Don’t Do “Feminization” As A Form Of Humiliation”