BDSM health

Cleaning: Know What You’re Doing

I always have a pretty strong suspicion that someone doesn’t understand how to properly clean when they say something like,

“I always sterilize my furniture.”

Someone

…because you can’t sterilize furniture.

You should know this stuff before you ever accept … continue reading “Cleaning: Know What You’re Doing”

Do You Have A Health Condition?

Have an injury, chronic health condition, and/or (dis)ability?

I have multiple clients in your position & am adept at creating scenes that meet you where you’re at.

(My dungeon isn’t accessible but my mind is! I’ll do everything I can … continue reading “Do You Have A Health Condition?”

Why Chronic Pain Sufferers Are Turning To BDSM

“…a kink environment has the potential to give pain a new vocabulary—which benefits both the chronically pained—and those trying to understand pain outside of its limited medical and socially constructed definition.”

Full article here.

Article: Kinky Sex Could Be the Secret to Your Success

“Many successful visionaries throughout history, from artists to scientists and even politicians, have had well-documented kinks and fetishes that affected how they operated in their daily lives.

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A wave of recent research has confirmed this: If it’s something

… continue reading “Article: Kinky Sex Could Be the Secret to Your Success”

Article: “The Thrilling, Messy Lives of New York’s Freelance Dominatrices”

I find most of this article problematic, but there is one part I did very much appreciate.

What I had issue with were that the examples they use of “freelance” (i.e. independent) Dominatrices are kind of odd, and ironically paint … continue reading “Article: “The Thrilling, Messy Lives of New York’s Freelance Dominatrices””

Take Care of Yourselves, courtesy of Mistress Michelle Lacy

I am re-posting this here with Mistress Michelle Lacy‘s permission. She said everything I could have said about why it is VITAL you share any and all health matters with your Dominant — but She said it better. Please … continue reading “Take Care of Yourselves, courtesy of Mistress Michelle Lacy”