Take Care of Yourselves, courtesy of Mistress Michelle Lacy

I am re-posting this here with Mistress Michelle Lacy‘s permission. She said everything I could have said about why it is VITAL you share any and all health matters with your Dominant — but She said it better. Please … continue reading “Take Care of Yourselves, courtesy of Mistress Michelle Lacy”

The Judgmental BDSM Professional

Have you ever had someone shame you about your identity or sexuality?

Feels horrible, doesn’t it?

Have you ever had a Domme or Mistress do it?

If you’re a genuinely submissive person, it can be especially damaging — possibly pushing … continue reading “The Judgmental BDSM Professional”

Why I Don’t Do “Feminization” As A Form Of Humiliation

Many Dommes indicate “feminization” as an activity they offer. It’s popular. A lot of men are interested in it. Usually it’s cis men, but I have known trans men who enjoy it. Also, usually straight men, but sometimes queer, bi, … continue reading “Why I Don’t Do “Feminization” As A Form Of Humiliation”