Protocol – Page 3 – MISTRESS TISSA'S BDSMlog

Tribute and Gift Etiquette

April 26, 2023February 2, 2018 by Mistress Tissa

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Hard Limits and Soft Limits

April 9, 2023December 7, 2017 by Mistress Tissa

If you have spent any time experimenting with BDSM, you will encounter the concept of the “hard limit”. You likely also heard about its close relative the “soft limit”. While they are both refer to limitations placed on the activities … continue reading “Hard Limits and Soft Limits”

What Does It Mean To Cancel Same-Day?

April 9, 2023November 24, 2017 by Mistress Tissa

One of the banes of a Dominatrix’s existence is same-day cancelations. The reason We loathe this is because it’s guaranteed to cost Us and mess things up. Sometimes in more ways than people may have ever considered.

You may not … continue reading “What Does It Mean To Cancel Same-Day?”

Same-Day Sessions

April 12, 2023November 5, 2017 by Mistress Tissa

As I state on My protocol and contact pages, I don’t accept requests for “same day” sessions. Despite My making this clear right next to where I ask what date(s) someone is interested in, I still receive requests for … continue reading “Same-Day Sessions”

Policy Change: Deposits

April 12, 2023November 2, 2017 by Mistress Tissa

Due to an increase in same-day cancellations, effective immediately, new clients without satisfactory professional references who are booking sessions 1 hour or greater will be required to pay a 50% deposit. Clients with excellent professional references will be allowed to … continue reading “Policy Change: Deposits”

Change To Twitter

April 12, 2023September 4, 2017 by Mistress Tissa

I’m no longer allowing locked accounts to follow me on Twitter.

My exceptions are those who are existing clients, friends, and select verifiable adult professionals.

Here’s why I did this:

When a person locks their account, all of their activity … continue reading “Change To Twitter”

Periodically, when someone requests a session with Me they will give Me a detailed description of exactly how they expect Me to run it. I immediately feel objectified and angry. I feel like they don’t trust My knowledge, My skills, … continue reading “Sharing Your Interests Versus Giving a Script”