Philosophy
Sharing Your Interests Versus Giving a Script
Periodically, when someone requests a session with Me they will give Me a detailed description of exactly how they expect Me to run it. I immediately feel objectified and angry. I feel like they don’t trust My knowledge, My skills, … continue reading “Sharing Your Interests Versus Giving a Script”
All-Inclusive Dominatrix
I WELCOME people of any:
Gender 
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Sexuality ⚢⚣⚤
Ethnicity/color 
Religion 
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Age (legal) 
Body/ability 
I have experience playing with people who are…
- cis men, trans men, cis women, trans women, genderqueer, genderfluid, non-binary, gender non-confirming
- hetero men, gay
Article: BDSM as Harm Reduction
… continue reading “Article: BDSM as Harm Reduction”“As I’ve indicated in a number of other articles, recent robust research has found no correlation between BDSM and pathology, and indeed the research that attempted to connect BDSM to trauma often had underlying deeply flawed and biased methodologies,
Article: “The Thrilling, Messy Lives of New York’s Freelance Dominatrices”
I find most of this article problematic, but there is one part I did very much appreciate.
What I had issue with were that the examples they use of “freelance” (i.e. independent) Dominatrices are kind of odd, and ironically paint … continue reading “Article: “The Thrilling, Messy Lives of New York’s Freelance Dominatrices””